Real Orgasms and Real Pleasures

Dear EO, It feels awkward writing this email being that we are Christians and I’m assuming that by you having a forum that encourages orgasms, that you aren’t. But therein lies our dilemma! We have been married for three and seven months and I have NEVER had an orgasm! We have been to therapy and counseling and to be quite Frank, it’s gotten us nowhere.

Basically the counselors share a few scriptures with us, dig into our backgrounds and then suggests that we read Song of Solomon to each other. We can quote SOS backwards and forward, still NO ORGASM for me! Amazingly, we arrived at EnjoyOrgasms.com one night after I couldn’t take it anymore and boy were we presently surprised.

Almost four years with no orgasm and my problem is SOLVED 12 hours later. I had my first orgasm less than 24 hours after finding your website… since that time, all I can say is, “IT WAS WORTH NOT GIVING UP MY DESIRE! In that short span, my husband and I have traveled to an entirely new level and experienced feelings, conversations, moments of ecstasy and a deepness we have never ever come close to. Who would have thought?

We got a copy of Female Orgasm Revealed and it was everything you said and then some! Gabriele was G-R-E-A-T! Then we got 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets and all I can say is WOW! Here’s something funny, we talked and both of us decided to take off from work for a week and enjoy our newly found passion and erogenous zones. But that wasn’t the funny thing… the funny thing is, I think I’m addicted to having sex now and my husband has turned me into a nympho! Seriously, we have been like two out of control teenagers! Thanks again for your help! XOXO

Department of Social Medicine, University of Bristol.

OBJECTIVE: To examine the relation between frequency of orgasm and mortality. STUDY DESIGN: Cohort study with a 10 year follow up. SETTING: The town of Caerphilly, South Wales, and five adjacent villages. SUBJECTS: 918 men aged 45-59 at time of recruitment between 1979 and 1983. MAIN OUTCOME MEASURES: All deaths and deaths from coronary heart disease. RESULTS: Mortality risk was 50% lower in the group with high orgasmic frequency than in the group with low orgasmic frequency, with evidence of a dose-response relation across the groups. Age adjusted odds ratio for all cause mortality was 2.0 for the group with low frequency of orgasm (95% confidence interval 1.1 to 3.5, test for trend P = 0.02). With adjustment for risk factors this became 1.9 (1.0 to 3.4, test for trend P = 0.04). Death from coronary heart disease and from other causes showed similar associations with frequency of orgasm, although the gradient was most marked for deaths from coronary heart disease. Analysed in terms of actual frequency of orgasm, the odds ratio for total mortality associated with an increase in 100 orgasms per year was 0.64 (0.44 to 0.95). CONCLUSION: Sexual activity seems to have a protective effect on men's health.

PMID: 9448525 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE]